Hello mechanics and DIYers!

I've decided I want to start doing basic maintenance on my car (a 2018 Honda Civic, for example) to save money. The first big hurdle I want to tackle is the engine oil change, but I'm incredibly nervous about doing it safely, especially the part where I have to get under the car.

I need a fool-proof, step-by-step guide written for a complete beginner, focusing heavily on safety and simplicity.

Could you provide a clear sequence of actions and answer these key questions?

1. Safety First (Jacking): What is the absolute safest way to raise the car, and more importantly, what are the exact points where I should place my jack and my jack stands? (Pictures or simple diagrams showing the frame rail are a huge help!)
2. Draining the Oil: After warming the engine slightly, what is the best technique to quickly loosen the drain plug while avoiding getting hot oil all over my hand and the ground?
3. The Filter Nightmare: When removing the old oil filter, what's the best trick to minimize the inevitable oil spillage? Also, how much new oil should I put on the gasket of the new filter?
4. Final Check: What is the specific step-by-step procedure for adding the new oil and correctly checking the dipstick after starting the engine for the first time?

I am ready to buy the tools, but I need confidence in the process. Any guide that is easy to print out and follow in the garage would be amazing!

Thanks for helping me tackle this important DIY skill!